Blog Post Four “Let’s Talk About Sex (Calm Down — This Is Not That Kind of Blog)”
📝 BLOG POST
“Let’s Talk About Sex (Calm Down — This Is Not That Kind of Blog)”
👶 If You’re Under 18 — Listen.
And I mean really listen.
Like, put the phone down and try using the brain God gave you.
You are not missing out.
You are avoiding damage.
You don’t need a body count.
You need a brain.
You don’t become more mature by rushing into sex —
you just increase your chances of regret, confusion, and emotional free-fall.
You think it’s harmless fun?
It’s usually just self-inflicted pain with better lighting and a side of awkward silences later.
Let me hit you with a bit of reality:
You think you're ready to take that kind of risk?
To create a life?
To potentially die during childbirth before even figuring out your taxes?
Because here’s what they don’t tell you:
Teen girls are at significantly higher risk of complications or death during pregnancy.
And teen boys? You’re likely not even responsible enough to keep houseplants alive — let alone a child.
And don’t get me started on the “we’ll be careful” excuse.
Even protection doesn’t guarantee zero risk.
But that’s not even the main point.
The real issue is this:
You’re still in high school.
Your life hasn’t even started yet.
Why ruin it now, for a few minutes of validation and heat?
Let me guess — your parents probably don’t even step in.
They just look the other way, while you think you’re “that person,” living wild like a movie character.
Except real life doesn’t cut to credits.
Real life has consequences.
So until you’re grown?
Relax.
Breathe.
Heal.
Build yourself.
Because when you turn 18?
That’s when you can start making those kinds of decisions —
without anyone holding you back.
But for now?
Dating is fine.
Sex?
Don’t ruin yourself.
👥 Now, as for those 18 and above…
You're an adult.
That doesn’t make you invincible.
It just means you should understand the consequences.
I’m not here to play priest.
Or therapist.
Or purity coach.
I’m 18 myself. I get it.
I’m not above desire.
I’m human — not made of stone.
When the time’s right?
I’ll get back in the game.
I’ll woo girls with awkward charm, clean clothes, and probably an unexpected one-liner that actually lands.
And if they say yes?
I won’t say no.
But I’ll have standards.
Always.
💬 The Truth?
I don’t want hookup culture.
I want clarity.
If it happens, I want it to be:
Mutual
Wanted
Respectful
No pressure
No lies
The kind of experience where both people walk away still proud of themselves.
Not whispering “What the hell did I just do?” in the shower.
Because let’s be real —
We all want it.
Let’s not act like we don’t.
But if we’re going there, at least go there with someone who,
if pregnancy happened —
you wouldn’t feel like your life just got deleted.
Protection exists — great.
But the chance of pregnancy?
Never hits zero.
So maybe — just maybe — choose partners
you wouldn’t mind co-parenting with if the universe flipped a coin.
👗 To the Ladies…
You know you’re beautiful.
You’ve heard it all your life.
But just because someone says you’re beautiful
doesn’t mean they’re interested.
You’re not the first beauty we’ve seen — trust me, we’ve seen a lot.
Still…
You’re special. I guess. 😏
Because let’s be real:
You want it. I want it.
So why act like it’s a transaction?
If you agree… we both get it.
Win-win. Don’t you think?
Hey — it’s not personal.
It’s just how the world works.
So either allow it…
Or don’t.
No pressure.
Ladies… I’m coming.
With respect though.
💸 To the Guys Walking This Path With Me…
You need money.
Not pocket change.
Not crypto hype.
Real stability.
The kind where:
Dinner doesn’t leave your account crying
Gifts don’t feel like small financial funerals
And she doesn’t feel like she’s dating a liability
And yes — you also need to look better.
If your vibe screams “I haven’t tried since 2018,”
you’ve already lost.
First impressions matter. Period.
Hit the gym — not to become shredded,
but to become disciplined.
Bathe. Groom.
Wear clothes that weren’t originally pajamas.
Dress like you respect yourself — and people might start doing the same.
📘 Want the blueprint?
I already wrote the book:
“100 Strategies to Win Over a Girl.”
Go read it. Its on this website’s homepage.
I’m not spoon-feeding it again.
🧠 Final Note:
Sex is not evil.
It’s just powerful.
Use it poorly?
It’ll wreck you.
Use it wisely?
It can be beautiful.
So don’t let lust run the show.
Let wisdom lead.
Choose connection over chaos.
Choose respect over regret.
That’s it.
No preaching.
No shame.
Just honesty.
— Samuel
