Blog Post Four “Let’s Talk About Sex (Calm Down — This Is Not That Kind of Blog)”
📝 BLOG POST
“Let’s Talk About Sex (Calm Down — This Is Not That Kind of Blog)”
👶 If You’re Under 18 — Listen.
And I mean really listen.
Put the phone down and try using the brain God gave you. 🧠
You’re not missing out.
You’re avoiding damage.
You don’t need a body count —
you need a brain.
Yes, a brain.
Rushing into sex doesn’t make you mature.
It just increases your chances of regret, confusion,
and emotional free-fall. 😵💫
You think it’s harmless fun?
It’s usually self-inflicted pain
with better lighting and an awkward silence afterwards.
Unless it’s peer pressure —
is that the case?
If it is… why?
Shouldn’t you be able to make your own decisions?
Unless you’re trying to fit in…
and if that’s the case, do you.
⚠️ Reality Check
Are you ready for that kind of risk?
To create a life? 👶
To potentially die during childbirth
before even figuring out your taxes? 💀
Here’s what people forget:
• Teen girls face real pregnancy risks.
• Teen boys? A lot of you can’t even keep a plant alive. 🌱
And the classic:
“We’ll be careful.”
Yeah… even protection doesn’t give you a 0% chance. 🎯
But honestly?
That’s not even the main point.
🎒 You’re Still in High School
Your life hasn’t even started yet.
Why ruin it now for a few minutes of validation and heat?
Your parents probably don’t intervene.
They look the other way while you act like a movie character. 🎬
The main character in a show no one asked for.
Except this is real life.
Real life doesn’t fade to black.
Real life has consequences.
So until you’re grown?
Relax.
Breathe.
Heal. ❤️🩹
Build yourself. 🧱
Because when you turn 18?
That’s when you can make those decisions
without anyone holding you back.
But for now?
Dating is fine.
Sex?
Don’t ruin yourself.
👥 Now — For Those 18 and Above…
You’re an adult.
Not invincible.
Just… responsible-ish.
I’m not a priest, therapist, or purity coach.
I’m 18. I get it.
I’m not above desire.
I’m human — not stone.
When the time is right?
I’ll get back in the game. 😉
I’ll show up with awkward charm, clean clothes,
and maybe a one-liner that lands by accident.
If they say yes?
I won’t say no.
But standards matter.
Always. ⭐
Ladies… I’m coming.
With respect though. 🙇♂️✨
💬 The Truth
I’m not against sex.
I’m against chaos.
I’m not against hookup culture either —
I just prefer clarity. ✨
If it happens, I want it to be:
• Mutual
• Wanted
• Respectful
• No pressure
• No lies
The kind of experience you don’t regret.
The kind where you walk away still proud of yourself —
not whispering “Why did I do that?” into a shower drain. 🚿
We all want it.
Let’s not pretend we don’t.
But if pregnancy happened?
You shouldn’t feel like your life just got deleted. 🗑️
Protection exists,
but risk never hits zero.
So maybe choose someone you trust.
Someone you actually care about.
Someone who isn’t a random NPC you met at 2AM.
Because if you’re gonna do it,
then at least do it with someone who matters —
someone special.
Not a stranger you can’t text the next day
without double-checking their name.
And even if you’re not scared of pregnancy —
maybe you’re a big boy or girl now —
STDs are real, you know?
Clinic-appointment real.
Hospital-wristband real. 😭💉
And if your argument is
“I need experience,”
alright… do you.
No judging.
But think for a second:
Experience for what exactly?
Trauma?
Regret?
A souvenir rash?
Okay.
Let’s end it here.
That’s a sensitive topic to touch altogether.
And if you do go seeking “experience,”
how about trying quality control instead?
And I don’t mean that in a demeaning way to the ladies —
I mean have standards.
Choose people who value themselves,
and value you too.
Not in a judgmental way…
just in a “don’t play yourself” way.
And please —
don’t go doing things with someone who treats their body like a public transit. 🚌
STDs aren’t a myth.
They’re real-real.
Hospital-wristband real. 😭💉
And if you still somehow end up doing it…
as a dude, wrap it up. 🎯
Anyway…
👗 To the Ladies…
You’re beautiful —
you’ve probably heard it all your life.
But beauty doesn’t automatically mean interest.
You’re not the first beauty we’ve seen…
Still, you’re special. I guess. 😏
💸 To the Guys Walking This Path With Me…
You need money.
Not pocket change.
Not crypto hype.
Real stability. 💼
The kind where:
• Dinner doesn’t break your account
• Gifts don’t feel like funerals
• She doesn’t feel like she’s dating a liability
And yes — you need to look better.
If your vibe screams “I stopped trying in 2018,”
you’re cooked. 😭
First impressions matter.
Hit the gym — for discipline, not abs. 🏋️♂️
Shower. Groom.
Wear clothes that aren’t pajamas.
Dress like you respect yourself —
and people might start doing the same.
📘 Want the Blueprint?
I already wrote the book:
100 Strategies to Win Over a Girl.
It’s on the homepage.
I’m not spoon-feeding it again. 😌
🧠 Final Note
Sex isn’t evil.
It’s powerful.
Use it poorly and it wrecks you.
Use it wisely and it can be beautiful. ✨
Choose connection over chaos.
Choose respect over regret. 🤝
No preaching.
No shame.
Just honesty.
— Samuel
