📓 Blog Post 17 – “Kindness, Anger, and the Temptation to Snap”

📓 Blog Post – “Kindness, Anger, and the Temptation to Snap”

✍️ By Chaos Samuel

Some people preach kindness like it’s a permanent personality trait. It’s not. It’s a discipline — and sometimes a battle. ⚔️

Because let’s be honest, when you’re really pushed? That calm version of you that says “I don’t care” starts to glitch. 💢 The silence turns into static. You start shaking. The brain goes: “We could burn it all down right now.” 🔥

That’s the moment that separates people.

A psychopath ends the noise by ending someone else. 💀

A sociopath throws punches, breaks bones. 🩸

A sane person argues, maybe breaks a glass, maybe their own heart. 💔

The difference isn’t the anger. Everyone has that. It’s what you do with it that defines you.

See, kindness isn’t just “being nice.” It’s self-control with class. 😌

It’s saying, “I could destroy you, but I’ll just walk away instead.” 🚶‍♂️

It’s letting silence win over chaos — which is ironic, coming from me. 🤫

Because here’s the paradox: kindness isn’t weakness. It’s control — control over one’s self. ☯️
It’s choosing peace when destruction would be easier. That’s not softness. That’s strength under discipline. 💭

When someone betrays you, disappointment hits harder than rage. It eats. You start thinking maybe trusting people is stupid. But if you stop trusting completely… you stop being human. You start calculating every smile, doubting every word, living like everyone’s plotting. 🕵️‍♂️ That’s not strength — that’s paranoia dressed up as wisdom.

And take it from the guy in this video 👇

just like those who are familiar with Lord of Mysteries will say — Praise the Fool. 🃏

if you want to know the TikTok account creator, it’s @mi0racle.
It’s a hassle to add the link. Go find it yourself. 😌📱

Now, let’s talk about the part nobody likes to touch — the psychopaths and sociopaths. Yeah, those words everyone throws around on TikTok whenever someone ghosts them. 📱🙄

Let’s start with the real ones. Psychopaths aren’t “crazy” in the movie sense. They’re cold, calculated, emotionally quiet — like their brain runs Windows in safe mode. 🧊 The danger is that silence. When they get angry, they don’t yell — they think. And sometimes, what they think is worse than yelling.

You could be a psychopath and still understand what empathy is. 💭

Now, as for the ones you see in movies — they’re the ones with no shred of empathy. The total voids. The real monsters. 🎬

And as for the psychopaths who society might consider evil, if you notice, they embrace the label of being pure evil. Then those on the side of good ask, “Are you even human?” — sadly, they still are. They embrace the label fully self-aware and live by one rule: theirs. Doing what they want because they want to, without needing a reason. As far as they’re concerned, as long as they can and want to, that’s enough. A truly carefree life. And it’s either they have no emotions at all, as they are full-on psychopaths and choose not to act within reason, or some keep their emotions while keeping them under control, yet twisting the way they should be used for personal gain, or over time their emotions simply got dulled. 🧊

If that’s you — or close to it — your biggest weapon is control. The mind that can plan revenge in ten steps can also plan peace. 🧠

You just have to choose the version that doesn’t end up in cuffs. 🔒

Use your logic to build systems that stop you from crossing lines. Detach, but don’t dehumanize. If empathy’s hard, use reason: hurting others always backfires eventually. If you can’t feel why it’s wrong, understand why it’s stupid. 💡

Now, as for the sociopaths — they are a different brand of chaos. ⚡

They don’t calculate; they react.

They get mad fast, act faster, and regret it way too late. One insult and boom — glass shattered, friendship gone, job lost. 💥

If that’s you, you need distance — literal distance — between your feelings and your actions. Walk. Cool off. Hit the gym. Break your ego, not someone’s jaw. 🥊

And if you’re reading this thinking “damn, I’ve done both,” then congratulations — you’re human with impulse issues. 😅

But the fix is the same: learn silence.

It’s not weakness. It’s choosing your battlefield. 🎯

Kindness is how you stop that darkness from turning into action. 🕯️

You can feel angry, betrayed, and done — but when you choose not to destroy, you’ve already won the hardest war: the one with yourself. ⚔️💭

Take me for example. My morals — while they aren’t necessarily a bad thing — sometimes when I start thinking logically, I feel it’s foolish what I did. Like, why help someone when it could cause this to happen to you? They’re strangers. Just walk away. But no… that thing called a conscience won’t let me. 🫀 It drags me back, even when my brain is screaming “let them deal with their own mess.” That’s the tug-of-war we all live with.

Hence the need for hard boundaries. If someone crosses you, don’t beg for apologies — collect evidence. If they betray you or plan to, mark the moment they hit 90% and make them pay — legally and reputationally. Cut them off. Lock down your life. Call a lawyer. File civil suits, restraining orders, or report fraud where appropriate. Expose hypocrisy when it matters. Freeze access, cancel privileges, and leave a paper trail that makes regret inevitable. Don’t lean on petty revenge — use systems that hit wallets, reputations, and opportunities. That’s how you protect yourself and make sure they can’t do it again.

So yeah, be kind. But not naive.

Have boundaries. 🚧

Have limits. ⚖️

Have consequences for betrayal. ⚔️

Because real strength isn’t never getting hurt. It’s knowing the risk — and choosing to care anyway. ❤️‍🔥

And sometimes? Just chillax. 🧘‍♂️

Have a nice chilled Fanta. 🍊 Not alcohol — you lose reason with that. Maybe water. Maybe chinese to help cultivate the dao of peace. Whatever helps you cool your nerves and rebuild your inner peace. ☕💧

Because peace isn’t found in noise — it’s built in moments of stillness.

Because in a world that keeps asking for revenge, forgiveness is rebellion. 💫

And — if you’re a male like me, snapping just doesn’t look cool to the huz. 😤

You lose your aura, bro. Your mysterious energy? Gone.

We tryna bag the ladies remember? — don't scare them away. 😭💔

Control your vibe before it controls you.

Still, don’t get it twisted — being kind doesn’t mean being weak. I’d rather walk away knowing I could break your jaw if I wanted to than be the one whose jaw gets broken. There is a huge difference between restraint and weakness. Be dangerous if you must, but keep it calm, controlled, and never stupid about it — just don’t end up in jail. 😶‍🌫️🦴🚫

Now here’s something else most people won’t admit — morality itself can be a weapon. 🧠
Sometimes, morality is what the weak preach to the strong to restrain them. 🧩
Other times, it’s what the strong preach to the weak to keep them obedient.
It’s the leash and the chain — depends on who’s holding it. ⛓️

I’ve seen people use morality not as a guide, but as a cage. They’ll guilt-trip, shame, and preach righteousness not because they care about good — but because it keeps others compliant.
It’s control disguised as virtue. 🕊️

That’s why my point is simple:
Stick to your morals — but not because someone tells you it’s what’s “right.”
Do it because you believe it is. 🙌
Because if your morality isn’t chosen, it’s not strength — it’s programming.

Also, I guess religion might play a part in it — afterall, it shapes a lot of what people call “good” or “evil.” But have you ever stopped to ask yourself what those before the times of religion acted on? 🤔
When there were no commandments, no heaven or hell — what guided them then? Instinct? Survival? Maybe empathy before it was branded as “virtue.”
Maybe morality existed before belief — raw, unfiltered, just the quiet understanding that some things break the world faster than others. 🌍💭

After all, good or evil is only decided by who’s in power. ⚖️
We just grew up in a world where “good” had the louder mic. 🎙️
And me? I choose to be good — not because society asked me to, but because I believe it’s right. ✨

And if we’re truly honest with ourselves — everyone has a bit of both good and evil. ☯️
As to which side you choose to cultivate, that’s up to you.

Some choose evil because it’s more efficient — and they get to live in a more selfish, carefree way while staying detached.

Anyways, they commit heinous deeds we might find repulsive, but to them it’s a carefree life. Unlike us, they aren’t bound by morality.

Some choose good because it eases their conscience — because they prefer that peace over chaos. 🌤️
And some choose good because they’re afraid of what society would think if they didn’t. 👀

Most humans are only kind when it’s convenient.
I’ve noticed they tend to expect something in return — saying things like, “you owe me a favor,” or “don’t forget what I did for you.” 💬
Dude, if you’re going to be kind, just be. 🤝
Expecting something back doesn’t make you good — it just makes you a hypocrite. 😮‍💨
if you are going to be kind, do it because you choose to be, not because you expect anything in return.
do it because you want to, not because it benefits you.
That’s what real kindness is — an act of choice, not a transaction. 💡

And if you think I’m just ranting — imagine what could happen if this world ever got thrown into famine. 🌍
Some of you would straight up turn into cannibals. 🍖
The so-called “good” or “kindness” would get tainted by desperation, morals would evaporate, and suddenly, survival would rewrite what’s right and wrong. ⚰️
In fact… evil might just be our default setting.
Who knows? 🤷‍♂️💭

It seems humanity is just wired with flaws — but I guess that’s what makes us human. 🧬❤️

Whichever side you choose, just make sure you were the one who chose it. ⚔️

Still, I’m only 18. I might be wrong. Who cares? no one’s reading this anyway.
So I get to blog as much as I want. 💻😌

Now if you will excuse me, i have got a hollywood action movie on netflix to watch.

— Chaos Samuel

🕯️ Writing without permission. 🌙 Living without labels.