📓 Blog Post 17 – “Kindness, Anger, and the Temptation to Snap”

📓 Blog Post – “Kindness, Anger, and the Temptation to Snap”

✍️ By Chaos Samuel

Some people preach kindness like it’s a permanent personality trait. It’s not. It’s a discipline — and sometimes a battle. ⚔️

Because let’s be honest, when you’re really pushed? That calm version of you that says “I don’t care” starts to glitch. 💢 The silence turns into static. You start shaking. The brain goes: “We could burn it all down right now.” 🔥

That’s the moment that separates people.

A psychopath ends the noise by ending someone else. 💀

A sociopath throws punches, breaks bones. 🩸

A sane person argues, maybe breaks a glass, maybe their own heart. 💔

The difference isn’t the anger. Everyone has that. It’s what you do with it that defines you.

See, kindness isn’t just “being nice.” It’s self-control with class. 😌

It’s saying, “I could destroy you, but I’ll just walk away instead.” 🚶‍♂️

It’s letting silence win over chaos — which is ironic, coming from me. 🤫

Because here’s the paradox: kindness isn’t weakness. It’s control — control over one’s self. ☯️
It’s choosing peace when destruction would be easier. That’s not softness. That’s strength under discipline. 💭

When someone betrays you, disappointment hits harder than rage. It eats. You start thinking maybe trusting people is stupid. But if you stop trusting completely… you stop being human. You start calculating every smile, doubting every word, living like everyone’s plotting. 🕵️‍♂️ That’s not strength — that’s paranoia dressed up as wisdom.

And take it from the guy in this video 👇

just like those who are familiar with Lord of Mysteries will say — Praise the Fool. 🃏

if you want to know the TikTok account creator, it’s @mi0racle.
It’s a hassle to add the link. Go find it yourself. 😌📱

Now, let’s talk about the part nobody likes to touch — the psychopaths and sociopaths. Yeah, those words everyone throws around on TikTok whenever someone ghosts them. 📱🙄

Let’s start with the real ones. Psychopaths aren’t “crazy” in the movie sense. They’re cold, calculated, emotionally quiet — like their brain runs Windows in safe mode. 🧊 The danger is that silence. When they get angry, they don’t yell — they think. And sometimes, what they think is worse than yelling.

You could be a psychopath and still understand what empathy is. 💭

Now, as for the ones you see in movies — they’re the ones with no shred of empathy. The total voids. The real monsters. 🎬

If that’s you — or close to it — your biggest weapon is control. The mind that can plan revenge in ten steps can also plan peace. 🧠

You just have to choose the version that doesn’t end in cuffs. 🔒

Use your logic to build systems that stop you from crossing lines. Detach, but don’t dehumanize. If empathy’s hard, use reason: hurting others always backfires eventually. If you can’t feel why it’s wrong, understand why it’s stupid. 💡

Now, the sociopaths — that’s a different brand of chaos. ⚡

They don’t calculate; they react.

They get mad fast, act faster, and regret it way too late. One insult and boom — glass shattered, friendship gone, job lost. 💥

If that’s you, you need distance — literal distance — between your feelings and your actions. Walk. Cool off. Hit the gym. Break your ego, not someone’s jaw. 🥊

And if you’re reading this thinking “damn, I’ve done both,” then congratulations — you’re human with impulse issues. 😅

But the fix is the same: learn silence.

It’s not weakness. It’s choosing your battlefield. 🎯

Kindness is how you stop that darkness from turning into action. 🕯️

You can feel angry, betrayed, and done — but when you choose not to destroy, you’ve already won the hardest war: the one with yourself. ⚔️💭

Take me for example. My morals — while they aren’t necessarily a bad thing — sometimes when I start thinking logically, I feel it’s foolish what I did. Like, why help someone when it could cause this to happen to you? They’re strangers. Just walk away. But no… that thing called a conscience won’t let me. 🫀 It drags me back, even when my brain is screaming “let them deal with their own mess.” That’s the tug-of-war we all live with.

And also, take me for example again. I might be sane, but sometimes I catch myself seeing people as nothing more than tools. Why? It’s the downside of being too logical. So sometimes I act rather than overthink. Even then, I at least understand what empathy is — if I didn’t, clinically I could be called a full-on psychopath. 🧠💭

At that point, things like wealth, beauty, even people themselves start to look like instruments toward a larger goal. Not out of malice, just design. Everything becomes a piece on the board, serving a purpose, because somewhere in my mind I plan to win. 🧩🏆
But I understand how one wins matters. You can win everything and still come back hollow — and that’s why I don’t move like that anymore. ⚖️🕯️

Because once you know yourself well enough, you realize morality and efficiency can both be tools — not truths, not absolutes, just instruments you pick when they serve your purpose. 🎭🧠
The danger is when they stop being guides and start being weapons. That’s when logic becomes cruelty and morality turns into control. 🩶⚖️

That’s why you need hard boundaries. If someone crosses you, don’t beg for apologies — collect evidence. If they betray you or plan to, mark the moment they hit 90% and make them pay — legally and reputationally. Cut them off. Lock down your life. Call a lawyer. File civil suits, restraining orders, or report fraud where appropriate. Expose hypocrisy when it matters. Freeze access, cancel privileges, and leave a paper trail that makes regret inevitable. Don’t lean on petty revenge — use systems that hit wallets, reputations, and opportunities. That’s how you protect yourself and make sure they can’t do it again.

So yeah, be kind. But not naive.

Have boundaries. 🚧

Have limits. ⚖️

Have consequences for betrayal. ⚔️

Because real strength isn’t never getting hurt. It’s knowing the risk — and choosing to care anyway. ❤️‍🔥

And sometimes? Just chillax. 🧘‍♂️

Have a nice chilled Fanta. 🍊 Not alcohol — you lose reason with that. Maybe water. Maybe tea. Whatever helps you cool your nerves and rebuild your inner peace. ☕💧

Because peace isn’t found in noise — it’s built in moments of stillness.

Because in a world that keeps asking for revenge, forgiveness is rebellion. 💫

And — if you’re a male like me, snapping just doesn’t look cool to the huz. 😤

You lose your aura, bro. Your mysterious energy? Gone.

We tryna bag the ladies remember? — don't scare them away. 😭💔

Control your vibe before it controls you.

Also, don’t get it twisted — being kind doesn’t mean being weak. I’d rather walk away knowing I could break your jaw if I wanted to than be the one whose jaw gets broken. Be dangerous if you must, but keep it calm, controlled, and never stupid about it — just don’t end up in jail. 😶‍🌫️🦴🚫

Now here’s something else most people won’t admit — morality itself can be a weapon. 🧠
Sometimes, morality is what the weak preach to the strong to restrain them. 🧩
Other times, it’s what the strong preach to the weak to keep them obedient.
It’s the leash and the chain — depends on who’s holding it. ⛓️

I’ve seen people use morality not as a guide, but as a cage. They’ll guilt-trip, shame, and preach righteousness not because they care about good — but because it keeps others compliant.
It’s control disguised as virtue. 🕊️

That’s why my point is simple:
Stick to your morals — but not because someone tells you it’s what’s “right.”
Do it because you believe it is. 🙌
Because if your morality isn’t chosen, it’s not strength — it’s programming.

Also, I guess religion might play a part in it — afterall, it shapes a lot of what people call “good” or “evil.” But ever stopped to ask yourself what those before the times of religion acted on? 🤔
When there were no commandments, no heaven or hell — what guided them then? Instinct? Survival? Maybe empathy before it was branded as “virtue.”
Maybe morality existed before belief — raw, unfiltered, just the quiet understanding that some things break the world faster than others. 🌍💭

After all, good or evil is only decided by who’s in power. ⚖️
We grew up in a world where “good” had the louder mic. 🎙️
And me? I choose to be good — not because they told me to, but because I believe it’s right. ✨

Because if we’re truly honest with ourselves — everyone has a bit of both. ☯️
As to which side you choose to cultivate, that’s up to you.

Some choose evil because it’s more efficient — and they get to live in a more selfish, carefree way while staying detached.
(And just to be clear — the word “selfish” is just a label.) 🧊
And if there’s one thing I hate, it’s people hurling out the word selfish like it’s a default setting.
If you’re calling someone selfish, you better be damn selfless.

Some choose good because it eases their conscience — because they prefer that peace over chaos. 🌤️
And some choose good because they’re afraid of what society would think if they didn’t. 👀

Most humans are only kind when it’s convenient.
I’ve noticed they tend to expect something in return — saying things like, “you owe me a favor,” or “don’t forget what I did for you.” 💬
Dude, if you’re going to be kind, just be. 🤝
Expecting something back doesn’t make you good — it just makes you a hypocrite. 😮‍💨
if you are going to be kind, do it because you choose to be, not because you expect anything in return.
do it because you want to, not because it benefits you.
That’s what real kindness is — an act of choice, not a transaction. 💡

And if you think I’m just ranting — imagine what could happen if this world ever got thrown into famine. 🌍
Some of you would straight up turn into cannibals. 🍖
The so-called “good” or “kindness” would get tainted by desperation, morals would evaporate, and suddenly, survival would rewrite what’s right and wrong. ⚰️
In fact… evil might just be our default setting.
Who knows? 🤷‍♂️💭

It seems humanity is just wired with flaws — but I guess that’s what makes us human. 🧬❤️

Whichever side you choose, just make sure you were the one who chose it. ⚔️

Still, I’m only 18. I might be wrong. Who cares? Most likely no one’s reading this anyway.
So I get to blog as much as I want. 💻😌

Now if you will excuse me, i have got a holloywood action movie on netflix to watch.

— Chaos Samuel

🕯️ Writing without permission. 🌙 Living without labels.