📓 Blog Post 19 – “Insults: The Discount Stickers of Society”

📓 Blog Post – “Insults: The Discount Stickers of Society”
✍️ By Chaos Samuel

Let’s talk about insults. 🎭
The universal human hobby.
Someone disagrees with you? Boom — you’re suddenly a clown, a nerd, or a potential failure with “no life.” 👏

But if you think about it, insults are just lazy labels. Stickers people slap on things they don’t understand.
You call someone “weird”? Congratulations, you just described originality. 🎨
You call someone “boring”? Congrats again, you’re announcing your lack of taste. 👃

Humans love categories. It helps them feel smarter than they are.
You know what an insult really means? “I don’t know how to process you, so I’ll reduce you.”
It’s the linguistic version of rage-quitting a conversation. 💀

Half the time, the insults don’t even make sense.
Someone gets called a “nerd” for knowing stuff, bear in mind there is a difference between a nerd and a bookworm, most people tend to mix up the meaning of those words — and when some of them need help with things suddenly it’s “bro, teach me your ways.”
Hypocrisy is the real global language. 🌍💬

And don’t get me started on the appearance-based insults.
Some ladies i have met acted like thier looks define thier personality, when half of them can’t even spell “character development.”
Some of you ladies even call your fellow ladies ugly with a camera filter thicker than government bureaucracy. 💅📱

Still, don’t get me wrong — looks do matter.
Let’s not lie, physical attraction plays its role. Beauty opens doors, but personality decides who gets to stay inside. 🗝️
The problem isn’t caring about looks — it’s using them as a weapon.
Someone’s features aren’t flaws just because they don’t align with your algorithm-fed definition of “pretty.”

Here’s the truth — most insults tend to be projections.
They come from people who want to hurt you because you reflect something they wish they had or want to have.
That could be Confidence. Peace. Purpose. Or maybe just better hair.

So when someone insults you, treat it like spam mail.
You didn’t ask for it. You don’t owe it attention.
Just mark it as “irrelevant human noise” within your mind and move on. 📬🚫

🔇 Irrelevant Human Noise — decoded

• 🗣️ Loud opinions, empty substance → acknowledge mentally, don’t engage, keep walking.

• 🤫 You don’t talk much → say only what’s necessary, clarity beats volume every time.

• 👀 People talk down on you or look down on you → their angle shouldn’t change your altitude —not out of arrogance, but clarity.

• 📢 Constant critics → noise stays noise, no matter how confidently it screams.

• 🧠 Focus check → the only real rivalry should be with your past or future self. Anything else turns toxic fast.

• 🏁 Competition with others can be healthy. Rivalry with other people usually isn’t. One builds you. The other distracts you.

• 🎒 People treat you like you’re the issue before you’ve had time to figure yourself out → that’s premature judgment, not truth.

• 📏 Pressure to change, shrink, or fit into a tolerable version of yourself → comfort-seeking from others, not guidance for you.

• 🪞Most of the time it isn’t about you → it’s about who they didn’t become, reflected uncomfortably in you.

• 📣 Group insults hit harder when everyone’s loud and nobody’s finished becoming a person yet → volume ≠ validity.

• 🛑 Unfinished opinions from unfinished people → do not internalise.

• 🧱 Quiet isn’t weak. Different isn’t wrong → it just isn’t loud.

• 🌱 Growth at your own pace → no permission required, no deadlines imposed.

• 🏷️ Early labels → not accuracy, just early noticing without understanding.

  Know the difference.

And back to the major topic — Insults.

At the end of the day, words are only as heavy as the person throwing them.
A lion doesn’t flinch when a parrot starts squawking. 🦁🐦
It’s loud, sure, but meaningless.

You’re gonna get called names — “cocky,” “arrogant,” “green tea,” “too quiet,” “too loud.”
That’s fine. Let them talk.
Labels only stick if you stop long enough to read into them.

And honestly? The people insulting you today probably won’t even matter to you in a while.
Life goes on, and so will you. Keep walking. 🚶‍♂️💭

The ones who talk behind your back will stay behind for a reason. ⏳

So yeah, insults? i believe they are just labels.
And you, my friend, are not for sale. 🕶️

Bonus video — Fang Yuan talking on insults.

Just to be clear, I don’t support his ideals, but he does have insights worth listening to.
If you want to know who the video’s creator is, it’s from a TikTok account called @ranshop64 — go find it yourself, adding the link is a hassle. 😌📱

— Chaos Samuel
🕯️ Writing without permission. 🌙 Living without labels.