Blog Post 25 📝 Blog Post — “The Illusion of Equality”

📝 Blog Post — The Illusion of Equality

By Samuel

People love saying the world is fair. That “everyone’s equal.” That if you just hustle hard enough, the universe will hand you your reward like it’s some vending machine. Cute idea — but no. Life isn’t a slot machine, it’s a rigged chess match.

Some are born rolling sixes 🎲. Some are born without dice. That gap doesn’t magically close because someone screams “fairness” louder. Pretending otherwise doesn’t make you noble — it just makes you naive.

And here’s the thing: it’s not depressing to admit this. It’s just reality. Facing reality doesn’t mean crying about it. It means adjusting your moves, cold and calculated, instead of living on fairy dust.

♟️ Life as a Chessboard

This world is a chessboard.

Some people spawn as queens 👑 — powerful from the start.
Some as bishops ✝️ — steady but limited.
Some as knights 🐴 — unpredictable but useful.
And most? They’re pawns — fragile, overlooked, and only feared if they actually make it across the board.

But here’s the catch: it’s not even one giant chessboard. Borders exist 🌍. Dozens of boards, dozens of games, overlapping but never fully connected. What happens then?

Some evolve into the ones pulling strings across multiple boards 🕴️.
Some dedicate themselves to helping others rise 🤝.
Some crush you before you ever get a chance 💀.

That’s life. Brutal. Strategic. Unfair.

It’s not just about skill, or how well you play your role. It’s a mix of strategy, role, and luck 🍀. And luck? You can’t control it. Some people will always roll higher than you. That’s just reality.

Hence the illusion of equality ⚖️.

⚖️ The Limits of “Equality”

No one is equal. Some are better than you — and always will be. In wealth, in strength, in status, in connections. Everyone has limits. But those who break past them? They’re the so-called “top percentile.” Some got there by luck 🍀, some by ruthlessness 🗡️, some by goodwill. Either way, they were just better.

And sure, you can call it unfair. But life was never fair. Deal with it.

On your path, risks are inevitable ⚠️. Anyone can become an obstacle. Queens can move leaps at a time 👑 — and they can also sway you right off your path.

👩‍🦰 Women, 👨 Men, and Power

Females usually have the upper hand in tactics 🧠 — intelligence, subtle influence, sometimes manipulation 🐍. Some embrace it, some don’t. Men lean on strength 💪 — and strength is power. But strength alone doesn’t rule anymore. Money does. And money is power 💼⚡.

This world has always been a game that thrives on survival of the fittest. Most just do it through money now.

But the true winners? They’re the ones who don’t even care about surviving — yet still push forward regardless.

And when the strong want something, they take it.

How they do it? That’s the only part you all argue about. Sometimes it’s called “good.” Sometimes it’s called “evil.”

As for me? I align with the side of good — not because society expects it, but because it aligns with my will and it is my nature.

🤔 Equality or Selective Fairness?

Since equality isn’t real, most deny it.

Think about it. Some people scream about equality, but in what exactly? Can a man hit a woman in the face when she annoys him? Not exactly. We’ve been told women are delicate flowers 🌸, and men are expected to be gentle with them.

But if a woman goes too far and a man reacts, suddenly it’s: “Are you even a man?” Isn’t that equality? Or is equality just whatever benefits you at the moment? 🤔

So maybe, rather than preaching equality, you start pushing mutual respect instead 🤝. Because true equality — respectfully speaking — just isn’t a thing.

And just to be clear: don’t raise your hand against a woman 🚫.

No matter how heated it gets, the best move as a man is to restrain yourself.

They are females after all — built different, not meant to be handled with brute force.

Your best option? Stay calm, keep your distance, and walk away 🚶.

If you can’t? Keep her at arm’s length, but don’t let anger control you. Because if it ever comes down to “he said, she said,” my guy, you are cooked 🔥👀.

And as to how cooked? oh boyy, you better pray she’s not one of those two-faced types. Tears work magic you know 😭✨.

One sniffle and suddenly you’re the villain. You’ll be standing there thinking: “My God… is this even the same person?”

And if she claims harassment? Just surrender 🚔.

At that point, your best hope is that your lawyer had a good breakfast.

💸 Marriage, Money, and Balance

And for the men who marry without thinking it through? Brace yourself. You could lose 50% 💸 if things go south. Hopefully your prenup — if you even had one — is watertight.

Here’s how it usually plays: you built brick by brick 🧱 before she even showed up. And yet, all it takes is her whispering “You can do this, my love 💕” — and suddenly half of everything is called “shared contribution.”

But that’s just beginner level. The boss level? Men who hand over their entire bank accounts 💳 the second they get married. That’s not love. That’s recklessness.

Some even go further — putting properties, cars, even businesses in their wife’s name 🏠🚗📑. Trust is important, but blind trust is dangerous. People can change. Hearts can change. And if her heart changes? By then, it’s already too late.

Now imagine being told to sleep on the couch 🛋️ — in the house that’s in both your names. Or worse, your own house. All because she’s mad 😒. That’s not balance, that’s control.

Love isn’t about handing over everything and hoping for the best. It’s about mutual respect 🤝, shared responsibility, and knowing where the boundaries are. Provide, protect, and support — yes. But don’t erase yourself in the process.

🏋️‍♂️ Burdens and Balance

Some men take on burdens alone 🏋️. Some women share those burdens 👩‍❤️‍👨. And yes — some people, men or women, just leech 🛡️. That’s reality.

But this is where respect matters. A man shouldn’t come home from a full day of work just to clock in for unpaid hours at home too — cooking, cleaning, fixing everything, carrying the emotional load. If you both work, then balance it. If she stays home, then recognize that running a household is its own full-time job.

What shouldn’t exist is entitlement. A woman looking her man in the eye and saying: “Give me your card 💳.” No “please,” no respect, just demand. That’s not partnership — that’s control.

Requests are fine. Sharing is fine. Building together is the goal. But demands? That’s imbalance.

At the end of the day, what should exist between a man and a woman is mutual respect 🤝. That’s the only balance worth fighting for.

🧠 Logic vs ⚔️ Action

Men and women aren’t the same — and that’s the point.

Men tend to lean on strength 💪. Women often lean on intelligence 🧠. Different strengths, both valuable.

That’s why men sometimes act brave 🦁, charging in even when it’s reckless. Women usually calculate ♟️, weighing the risks before they act. Men just do ⚔️. Women calculate 🧮. Two different instincts — neither absolute, but both necessary.

One without the other creates imbalance. Together, they complement each other 🔄. That’s why gender wars are pointless. Respect the differences, respect the roles, and build with each other — not against each other.

🌈 The LGBTQ+++

Now, as for the part some might be waiting for.

The LGBTQ+++ — hmmm. Honestly, I’ve lost count of how many labels there are these days 🤷‍♂️. But at the end of the day, everyone’s just trying to live how they feel is right.

To the women who love women — chase your happiness ✨. Life’s short.
To the men who love men — do your thing 👍.

I may not personally wave your flag, but I don’t hate you either. I could sit with you, talk like normal, even call you a friend. Respect goes both ways. Just as I respect your choices, respect mine.

At the end of the day: you do you, and I’ll do me 😎. Mutual respect is what matters.

🍔🥤 Fanta, Burgers, and Simple Joys

And after all that? Let’s keep it real — life isn’t just philosophy and survival. It’s also about the small joys.

For me, that’s Fanta with ice 🍊🧊🥤 and chicken burgers 🍔. Simple, refreshing, undefeated.

So when I say “Fanta is life” — don’t complain 🍊🔥. It’s better than alcohol that tastes bitter and makes people act foolish 🍺🤢. Still, I’ll take the sweeter drinks if you’ve got them 🍷😉.

That’s enough writing for now — time to enjoy my burgers 🍔🥤.

— Chaos Samuel ✨
Writing without permission. Living without labels.