Blog Post 19 – “Mirror to Humanity”
📝 Blog Post – “Mirror to Humanity”
By Samuel
🌍 Let’s Talk Real
Humans are funny.
Not in the “haha” way. In the tragic, ironic way.
We live our lives sprinting — but most of us don’t even know the race we’re in.
We eat like immortals, like our bodies won’t collect the bill later. 🍔🥤
We love carelessly, like hearts don’t break into scars that last decades. 💔
We waste time like it respawns, like it’s just another life in a video game. ⏳
We use people like tools, then cry when someone uses us. 🔄
And then… we act shocked.
Shocked when disease comes knocking.
Shocked when loneliness creeps in.
Shocked when our “friends” vanish the second they can’t leech off us anymore.
But here’s the uncomfortable truth:
None of it is surprising.
Every seed we plant eventually blooms. 🌱
The lies. The laziness. The little compromises we think don’t matter.
Give it time — they all grow into something.
And when that “something” turns into a monster staring us down, we pretend it came out of nowhere.
No. It came from you.
We humans are addicted to shortcuts.
Want abs without discipline.
Want love without sacrifice.
Want wealth without work.
Want forgiveness without change.
We dream of becoming better… while clutching the very habits destroying us.
And then we blame God. Or the devil. Or “bad luck.”
But deep down?
Most of our suffering comes from mirrors we refuse to look into. 🪞
You know the mirror I mean.
The one you avoid at 3 AM when you’re scrolling endlessly, knowing you should sleep.
The one you dodge when you ghost someone instead of apologizing.
The one you smash mentally every time you say “I’ll change tomorrow.”
But the mirror doesn’t break.
It waits.
Patient.
Silent.
Until one day it reflects everything back — unfiltered.
And maybe that’s the scariest truth of all:
Humanity doesn’t fall because of some great apocalypse.
It falls daily. Quietly. In small choices. In neglected responsibilities. In the rot of unchecked habits.
The monster isn’t out there.
It’s in you.
It’s in me.
It’s in us.
So maybe — just maybe — it’s time we stop sprinting, and start staring at the reflection.
Because ignoring it won’t save us.
It only delays the collapse.
💔 On Love & Relationships
You all claim you “love” each other 💕.
Some of you maybe do — maybe for life ⏳. Respect.
But let’s stop making it sound all rosy 🌹.
You got married? Cool.
👉 But you haven’t even faced the real problems yet 🧨.
Your feelings could fade 😶. That’s normal.
But should that really be the reason why divorce rates are sky-high 📈?
Maybe it wasn’t “love dying.”
Maybe it was your ego being bruised.
You could fight and make up 🤜🤛.
You could lose the spark ✨ and re-ignite it 🔥.
Especially if you’ve got kids 👶 — you owe them that much effort.
Unless you’re already chasing someone else 👀👉. Then just say it. Don’t pretend 🎭.
Here’s the truth:
Love is a choice. 🖤
Feelings? You can catch them for anyone.
But choosing to stay through the ups and downs 🎢 — that’s real love. ❤️🔥
💍 On Devotion, Monogamy & Polygamy
Now, with that being said, some of you might ask:
👉 “Can I care for more than one person?” 👀
Honestly, i don’t know — that’s for you to figure out 🧠.
Some choose monogamy because society pushes it 📚.
Some choose polygamy (rare, but it happens) 👑.
At its core, monogamy came from people choosing to devote to one person ❤️➡️1️⃣.
Why? Because of history: things like birth control, jealousy, religion, traditions etc — all pushed it as the norm.
And that’s okay.
But ask yourself:
👉 Are you choosing monogamy because it’s your choice?
👉 Or because society expects it from you?
Me? i am christian having one is the way to go, also because it is my choice,not society’s, mine.
I can only imagine the hassle of being drowned in work and someone sending me a message like,its been hours,do you love me?
Bruhh, chillax, i will tend to you in a moment.
⚖️ The Law & Reality Check
Also… know this: most countries will legally acknowledge only one spouse.
So you’re left with two choices:
1️⃣ Marry none → Acknowledge each other as husband & wife without paperwork.
(Ask Mr. Uzui, the Sound Hashira from the anime Demon Slayer if thats how he handled it— my man had 3 wives 💀🔥).
2️⃣ Marry one → But only with the consent of the others.
And jealousy? Oh, it’s real. Keep it in check 🔥.
As for the ladies — yeah, I don’t know. I’m not a female.
Find someone else to talk to on that.
But i would say this though,
Most men probably won’t accept it because their ego would be bruised.
Do you though 💅.
Our very own empress with prince consorts, just like in those dramas i watch.🙇♂️✨
🕊️ Old Testament Throwback
And if you do end up choosing the Uzui route, kiss your big wedding dreams goodbye.
But it’s not all bad, now is it? Look at the bright side — it saves you the wedding costs, doesn’t it? 🤔
Plus, maybe check if your religion or laws allow it… good luck.
And to those who might be Christians, imagine doing a Christian wedding and marrying 3 like Mr Uzui.
Yeah… we’re in the New Testament era, my guy ✝️.
Unless you wanna time-travel back to the times of the Old Testament when my man Solomon had 700 wives and 300 concubines.
How did he do it?
👉 My man was dropping wisdom with rizz. 💀✨
Still — it was also for political reasons and dynastic alliances.
My man was building his legacy, you know.
And yeah… in the end, those many women led him astray.
Still he was a man of GOD, put some respect on that name.
So yeah, maybe do it with restraint ⚖️.
🪞 The Real Mirror
Humans always want what we can’t manage.
We chase freedom but can’t handle discipline.
We chase love but can’t handle commitment.
We chase multiple partners but can’t even manage ourselves.
So if you want happiness?
Stop lying. Stop running. Stop blaming.
Look in the mirror 🪞.
That’s the enemy and the savior staring back.
And yeah, some of you might be wondering — who is this chaos blogger? Is he some old man 👴?
Nah. I’m only 18 🎒. I’ve barely lived.
And as the saying goes…
Coaches don’t play. 🏀
🧢 Final Note
👩👦 My Definition of a Wife
With all that being said…
👉 My definition of a wife = someone I choose to care for, and is probably the mother of a child that’s mine.
That’s it. No filters. No fantasy. Just choice and responsibility.
And as to who I might choose to care for?
That would be someone I like and vice-versa.
But — I will have standards.
Not a “type,” but standards. Always.
And as to who I might choose to care for? That would be someone I like, and who likes me back. Simple. ✅
But — I will have standards. Not a “type,” but standards. Always. ⚖️
As to what my standards are? Well, I just like who I like. Straight and simple, isn’t it? 🎯
Being beautiful helps though. 😏✨
And sure, some might think that’s superficial. Yeah, who cares? If I can only have one wife, she will be beautiful — at least to me. 💕
Although… maybe also being an ethereal beauty envied by all 👑🌸🔥 — is that too much to ask? Maybe that’s too much.
But still on a scale of 1 to 10, she has to be at least a 7. 🔢👌
And just to be clear: no one deserves a 10. ❌🔟 Nobody’s perfect. 🌍
And If you’re mad at this? Go cry about it. 😭👉 You aren’t who I’ll end up with after all — go find your own partner. 🫱🫲
And while we’re here… imagine she’s as cool and well-dressed as Jiyoung from the manhwa Eleceed. 🧊👗 That kind of icy beauty. Yeah, that’s the vibe.
Still, I will also try to meet the standards of women too — so ladies, I’m coming… with respect though. 🙏😉
So until then? We’ll sip Fanta while watching chaos unfold. 🍊🥤🔥
And let’s be real: Fanta + McChicken burgers = peak joy. 🍊🥤🍔✨
Oh — and just to be clear, I do have preferences. For example, age range.
I’m currently 18, and lowest i would go for will be 4 years younger (although highly unlikely for now, they’re minors you know 😏— so that would only take effect when I’m 22).
As for the highest, that would be 6 years older, maybe 8, max.
As long as there is mutual respect, it’s all cool.
still, preferably closer in age to me, but doesn’t really matter —it’s just a preference.
So ladies, if you’re outside this range… yeah, rest easy. 😏
So until then, your Respectful Rizzler will just be wooing girls with awkward charm. 🥤✨
Or should I just go full on Bruce Wayne with the ladies? 🦇💼💃 Dark Knight vibes, but swap Gotham for Fanta and McChickens. 🍊🍔
Also Let’s be real: Fanta + McChicken burgers = peak joy. 🍊🥤🍔✨
👑 Just a Random Question…
If I chose to follow in the footsteps of Mr. Solomon — you know, 700 wives, 300 concubines ✝️💀 — what then?
Would I be called wise 🧠✨… or just insane? 🤯
Would y’all call me “King Chaos” 👑🔥… or just another broke dude with too many in-laws? 😂
And if Solomon is too much… is Mr. Uzui from Demon Slayer cool? 💍💍💍
Three wives. Sound Hashira energy. Flashy fits. 🎇
Seems easier to manage than a thousand concubines, don’t you think? 😏
But hold up… ever read Songs of Solomon?
That man was out here spitting bars before Shakespeare was even a thought.
Take this:
💌 “You are altogether beautiful, my darling; there is no flaw in you.”
Bruh… that’s not just rizz. That’s heavenly rizz. 🍷💋✨
And it wasn’t just one line.
Solomon had ladies talking about him like this:
💌 “Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth!
For your love is better than wine;
your anointing oils are fragrant;
your name is oil poured out;
therefore virgins love you.
Draw me after you; let us run.
The king has brought me into his chambers.”
See what I mean? That’s aura. Presence.
Solomon’s rizz wasn’t mortal — it was legendary. 🧠👑🔥
Relax, I’m not applying for the Solomon Expansion Pack DLC yet 🎮.
I’m just asking… hypothetically. Maybe. Who knows? 🤔🍊🍔
Chaos Samuel ✨
Writing without permission. Living without labels.
